My boyfriend and soon to be fiance of two years just confessed something to me that I don’t know if I can get over. He told me that in his early 20’s he was a male prostitute. This wasn’t with girls either. He used to live in Fort Lauderdale back in the mid-90’s.
He was on heavy drugs and became homeless. To make ends meet he resorted to prostitution. Now this was almost 20 years ago. He is disease free and all is great with him now. I have to admit, this has hit me like a ton of bricks. I never knew of his drug use and of course never knew of his prostitution. He confessed to sleeping with over 100 men. Thank God he never caught anything. He promises me that he is not gay and blames everything on the drugs. I am struggling with this. I told my sister and she thinks he is definitely gay. She thinks I should leave him. She liked him so much… until I told her all this. Im having a tough time wanting to be intimate with him. This is all I can think about when we are together. My questions are: Can a guy sleep with over 100 men and not be gay?
AND Is this something that is break up worthy? Do I keep him in my life or is his past so messed up that I need to leave? I definitely feel different after he confessed this to me. How should I handle it? This is suppose to be the guy Im gonna marry.